Monday, 3 February 2014

First Public Swim + Date with Caleb + Capital Geek Girls Blogazine Launch + Evelyn Takes a Stand

First Public Swim


I took Evelyn swimming for the first time at a public pool last week. She went in our pool twice last summer but very briefly as it isn't heated and she was still so little. We went to the Splash Wave Pool (non wave hours) with Roya and her little guy Ronin who's now four months. The babies loved the water and to our surprise happily played for an hour and a half. And entry fee is only $1.90 - win!

Cameras aren't allowed in the pool area but they are in the changing rooms? Snapped a few pre-swim photos.



Date with Caleb


I spent Sunday afternoon shopping with my boy. We were also supposed to go skating together but time flew by and that never happened. So Caleb's in this weird in between size for pants. I've bought him a few recently but they're too long for him, and his other pairs that are of proper length are getting too tight at the waist. His tops are also used and abused, several of them with holes. All to say, his wardrobe was getting quite ghetto and we decided to revamp it.

We also got both of our skates sharpened at the mall since Caleb will be going skating with his class this Tuesday.

Having a phone camera means so many more Caleb pictures because he has no idea I'm taking them! Mwuahaha
This is about halfway through trying on a dozen pairs of pants - he decided to make yes/no/maybe piles
I still had brown pennies in my wallet - what else are they good for now?
We took the bus so Darcy could have the car for errands

Capital Geek Girls Official Launch Party


CGG is a local fan club for geeky girls that's been hosting neat events and publishing interesting articles for about a year now. Yesterday they hosted an official launch for their blogazine. It took place at the Future Shop on Merivale, had roughly 80 people in attendance and featured videogames, boardgames, snacks, Comic Book Shoppe products, and good ol' fashioned mingling. 

Somehow I missed the call for writers for the blog which kinda saddens me. They do accept one-offs so I submitted something for consideration over the weekend. I have many other ideas for articles so I'll see if there's interest. I did meet a handful of the writers at the launch and it was neat that a lot of them are 30-something year olds with families and similar interests.

The success of this group brought home to me how much the Ottawa Geek Social Club, which I run with a few people, is in need of revamping. Going to work on some ideas in the near future.

Oh, a very neat thing: Chrissy, an old mommy group friend of mine and also my former Usbourne Books boss, recently started a bakery catered to all things geeky called Cici & co - a bakery. Very neat endeavor and I look forward to supporting it!


I like their branding
A reason to wear my Knights of Good t-shirt and d20 necklace I got for Christmas (not that I needed a reason!)
My date!
Chrissy's cuppycakes - yes, the tops were edible
Nomnomnom
Super Mario Brawl
I remembered the pain of the Nintendo 64 analog stick
Explaining how to play King of Tokyo
Hashtagged for the first time in hopes of winning tickets to Comic Con (I didn't win but didn't mind promoting CGG anyway)


Evelyn Takes a Stand


Look what Evelyn started to do just this morning!



Most of the pictures were blurry because I didn't want to go to leave arms reach for long!

Miscellaneous


Liana has a math tutor from Tutorat-Est. She meets with her at the local library on Mondays and so far it's going well. Liana's also had a group of friends over a few times to work on an movie project for English class - hoping she lets me share the final products when it's completed.

We're trying a new no bark product for Dexter. It's the Dog Silencer Pro. It emits sonic and ultrasonic waves when barking occurs. It's supposed to take 2-3 weeks to work so we'll see how it goes. There's a 45 day money back guarantee so we figure we have nothing to lose.





Thursday, 30 January 2014

Hair: The American Tribal Love-Rock Musical

Liana, Debby and I went to See Hair in Kingston Tuesday night. The tickets were a Christmas gift. I've always liked the idea of "experience" gifts, especially for Liana's age group.

The show was good though not what I had expected. Having seen the 1979 movie based on the play I was expecting a tighter plot. At times the plot was so light it felt like we were watching a (rather dynamic) concert. That being said I thought the acting was great, loved the music, totally girl crushed on the Sheila character, and the mostly middle-aged Kingston audience were such good sports.

What would I like my 13 year old to take away from a pro-drug anti-war play with oh so much nudity?

History lesson 

 

I want her to be able to connect the 1960s with pacifism, activism, the sexual revolution and the Vietnam War. The Beatles and Across the Universe have already aided in my efforts.

Recognize shock value

 

Liana's an artsy kid surrounded be artsy people. She's going to be exposed to a lot of punchy messages in various art forms and I want her to think about subversiveness versus shock value. She was the first to point out there were certain scenes she felt seemed unnecessarily controversial. Maybe they were and maybe they weren't but either way, I'm glad she wasn't unthinkingly impressed with the outrageous.

Consider aesthetics

 

Female hippies must be so disappointed with our current feminine ideal and consumerism. Liana's in high school at a time when there is so much pressure for girls to look your best all of the time. I was kind of excited to point out how all the women had armpit hair and weren't wearing bras. Their was a strength in those women that I think is mostly lost now.

Feel comfortable talking to me


I'm a big proponent of open mother-daughter conversations, no matter how uncomfortable it may get. Opportunities to say "hey, look, these subjects are not taboo" are important.


Well, at least that's how I'm justifying having had her watch Hair ;)

On the train
Liana was invited to burn her draft card
Had to...
Had to again...
The three of us!
Heading back home

Sunday, 26 January 2014

Scouts camping trip + And now back to our regularly scheduled maternity leave


Scouts camping trip


This weekend Caleb and I went camping at MacSkimming Outdoor Centre as a joint Beavers and Cubs activity. The evening began with some outdoor games that I was charged with planning. Thanks to some creative friends and Pinterest, I went with glow-in-the-dark bowling, horseshoes and snow ball target games. Back indoors we had the Beavers make sit upons out of milk bags and sleep buddies out of felt and toy stuffing. Then we went back out into the blistering cold to sit around a fire and sing songs, act out some skits, and learn stuff. Back indoors we got our pyjamas on, had popcorn and hot chocolate, and watched Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs 2 on a projector. I could not believe how sleepy I was when we called lights out at 10:30pm...must have been the fresh air. Caleb and I shared a bunk bed (he wanted the top bunk, of course). In the morning the Cubs made a wonderful bacon/pancake/fruit breakfast and they even washed all the dishes. I love the Cubs.

It was my first overnight away from Evelyn. I'm still nursing her so I was VERY happy to see her when I returned home. She was a good girl for daddy and slept all night.

Ready for sleeps!
The sleeping buddy Caleb made - doesn't it look like Princess Leia?

And now back to our regularly scheduled maternity leave

 

I've been doing an overwhelming amount of HR work things these last two weeks. Between competing for a pool and being part of a developmental program, in the last two weeks I wrote a take-home exam, wrote a self-assessment, went into work to make a presentation, and wrote a four-pager on her I meet educational requirements. I will say that it was nice, halfway through my leave, to have the opportunity to review my work life and visit co-workers...but it was also stressful.

I did still take some pictures of (mostly) Evelyn during this time, though.

This is me waking up Evelyn because she'd been napping for too long (she's just rubbing her eyes)
"I was awake the whole time, mommy"
Evelyn's favourite book to eat
Liana kindly offered to make dinner for all one day this week
Evelyn helping daddy play Hearthstone
A father/daughter duet
Caleb is a big fan of watching Darcy play games
A little serenading the baby before leaving for work
Dex loves laying on the mat in Evelyn's room
This is what Evelyn looks like when I'm blowing on her tummy
Sea party in the bath
Nom nom turtle
Drying off
This is her mischievous expression
Already getting tired of always being in the spotlight
Just chilling out and reading a good book
Baby steps to reading: no longer slobbering all over the pages
Surprise ending?
I was spotted
Not even a little bit sleepy
Kinda like those stacking cups they sell for babies